hmm...something to know

hello world back again!

so i was on this popular blog site that i sometimes frequent and i came across this post written by a guy on relationships. This was interesting to me because i hardly ever hear a guy talking about relationships unless it has some sort of focus on sex. Suprisingly enough, well at least to me, it had some validity to it. Most of it i had already know before and there was some things i agteed with and some things i didn't. So i more so did this so that if i wanted to show or tell someone or recall some of the points he made as male i wouldn't have to go find but just go to one of my post. Here it is courtesy of necolebitchie. com.........

Necole Bitchie.com: Livin’ the Bitchie Life….: "“The real problem with women in relationships is that they are doing marital acts with their man and they are not married. Examples of Marital Acts:
*Keys to the apartment
*Laying up under each other for hours at a time
*Putting things in each other’s name and you are not married (Cars, Cell phones, etc)
*Sex without a condom
*You call him your hubby or wife. (Bad words for a relationship is MY Wifey, MY Boo, MY anything. If you are not married to it, it’s not yours…)
*You are playing house. (i.e. Cleaning up their house, cooking etc...)
*Moving in or shacking up. (Why would you move in with someone without getting married? Don’t assume that just because you will move in with this dude, he’ll eventually marry you. )
*When you do these type of marital acts, you are giving a person the opportunity to use you up. They are getting the most out of you already so “why would they marry you?”."

Like i said i agree with most of it but what if you have no aspirations or desire to get married then does this still apply? And the point about saying my boo or wifey or my anything is not true if your not married because its not yours, which is true for the wifey term. But just you are not married doesnt mean that you and someone are not committed and therefore my boo or my man/woman is acceptable because before you even get to the point of marriage there should be some commitment before that if you are in a relationship.